Every day...heck-every MOMENT-you’re either moving closer to or farther away from your goals.
And be advised: Goals do not have to operate independently of a family. You’re allowed to have BOTH.
When Wednesday rolls around, ask yourself: Do I celebrate Hump Day and sliiiiiide into the weekend, or am I deploying as much effort and intensity as I did on Monday?
You’re always in the Driver’s Seat and you’re always 100% in command of how you CHOOSE to roll.
Yes, you have responsibilities.
Yes, up to this point you put yourself on the back burner waiting in the reserves.
Remember: Success in ANY endeavor is something that you TAKE, it’s not something that happens when the stars line up, or when you’re given special permission.
At the end of the day, you teach people how to treat you. It's up to you to keep your goals front and center. It's up to you to set yourself up for success in execution. It's up to you to remain congruent with what it takes to achieve those goals.
This requires a different version of you-it requires becoming a Woman of Strength (which is different than being a strong woman), and in no way does this mean you’re becoming a B, or that you should act like one.
What this DOES mean is that you’re CLEAR.
CLEAR on what no longer serves you.
CLEAR on what you WANT.
Consider this: Progressive change happens because of dissatisfaction initially, right? You look around and suddenly "wake up." The things you tolerated no longer fit and become intolerable. It's utter dissatisfaction, right?
But the pain that occurs with that dissatisfaction will only push you so far.
Once the rubber meets the road, and you’re dealing with the pressures that come about from the changes you’re making~
The guilt trips, the criticism, the back-handed compliments, the gossip, the catty comments, the intentional acts of sabotage from your friends, family and co-workers...
Unless you are CLEAR on EXACTLY what it is that you WANT, and can feel it pulsing through your veins-you’re a goner.
You’ll eventually cave and develop a tolerance to that pain point.
Not only will you regress, you’ll become blind and numb to it-just like you do with clutter on your countertops.
Put your Anchor Leg down and Step Back Into Your Power.
Set your goals as high as your heels (or the sexy heels you wish you COULD wear) and don’t stop til you get there.
Make It A Great Day! 👠
