Wanna Have A Kick-A$$ 2019?
Hello and Happy 2019!!
Who around here is ready to take things to the Next Level and have a Kick-A$$ 2019?
Cool. Thanks. Can we save ourselves 3 months of time and get right down to business?
By now you know me as the Coach who cuts right to the chase, so lemme ask you: Do You Want To Have A Kick-A$$ 2019?
Can I get a "HELL YEAH!"?
Cool. That's the level of energy we're gonna channel into our DECISION to Expect Victory from the get-go, and in the execution of that decision.
To be honest with you, what gave rise to this blog post was a beginning-of-the-year conversation with some of my guy friends about their goals.
Normally they have that “Carpe Your Damn Diem” attitude, but this year, several of these men didn’t. Truth be told, each of them went through the ringer last year, and came out feeling defeated and “beige” about the future. And that’s simply not their nature.
So I asked them, "What are your top 3 goals for the year?"
The interesting thing is that each of them chose 3 goals for this year that are TOTAL STRETCH GOALS, things they had been avoiding taking on, and are ones they admit having the least amount of confidence in.
My Inner Circle is small and tight. We share Core Values and are always on the lookout for each other’s well-being.
We typically do not beat around the bush when something is truly important, and expect one other to be a pillar of strength when we are weak.
Sometimes it’s a hug, sometimes it’s an ear to listen. And admittedly, sometimes...or should I say OFTENTIMES it’s food (can we say HANGRY?!?).
The Point is: Whatever the issue is, we know without a shadow of a doubt the other person will be there; and that includes CALLING UPON ONE ANOTHER'S INNER WARRIOR TO CHAMPION THEIR GOALS.
So I asked them the question: “Wanna have a kick-a$$ 2019?”
To that was a reveling “YES!” and some fist pumping.
So we made a pact that we would have a Kick-A$$ 2019.
See what we did there? That's called a Pivot Turn.
A Pivot Turn is just like in sports-when you take a 180 degree turn the other way. Only in this case, we did it in our minds and CHANGED HOW WE WERE VIEWING THE PERCEIVED PAIN FROM FACING THESE GOALS AND CURRENT SITUATION INTO SOMETHING THAT BRINGS US PLEASURE.
Now I’m a friend, but I’m also a coach. And I know “when the moment is gone,” it would be easy for them, or anyone in their situation to revert back into Eyore Mode. (That’s Eyore, not ER! Lol)
Here's What We Know: The Goals that these men set are what I’d consider “Next Level.”
And you know what they say about “Next Levels?”
They bring New Devils and require a different version of you.
A version that requires a higher level of maturity and CONFIDENCE to Expect and Demand Victory.
Does that resonate with you?
If it does, I’d like to invite you to listen to the recording of the Champion Mindset Coaching Call we did called "Expect & Demand Victory."
We talked about the early stages of a person’s Champion Mindset Training, and some of the tactics and strategies you can implement to move your Internal Dialogue and how you feel about yourself (whether you’re embarking on a new goal, or are have just suffered massive defeat) into a state of CERTAINTY that Victory Is Inevitable.
And then we take it one step further to train you not just to expect victory, but to DEMAND it.
Feel free to share the link with your team, clients, friends & Family, and anyone you know who wants to have a Kick-A$$ 2019!
Let's get it!
